My Summer Rhythm Plan as a Working Mom (How I Prep Before School Gets Out)

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It’s not even June yet and my calendar already looks like a small business operation.

Kids activities stacked on top of end-of-year events, sticky notes about which restaurants have kids eat free on which day, and somewhere in the middle of all of it, me, genuinely excited about what this summer is about to look like.

Because somewhere along the way I read something that stopped me in my tracks, you only get about 18 summers to truly enjoy your children. That number hit me hard. My oldest is already 4. That’s not a drill.

So this year I stopped treating summer like something to survive and started treating it like something to be fully present for. Both of my minis AND me.

Because here’s what I’ve learned as a working mom of two: summer doesn’t have to be something you push through. It can actually be something you look forward to. For real.

But that only happens if you plan it before the chaos finds you first.

The End of Year Chaos Is Real

Let me paint the picture for you.

School isn’t even out yet but summer planning is already in full swing. End of year events for the kids, childcare to lock in, activities to research, and a calendar that is getting more worn by the day. I have a 4 year old whose school ends on a Tuesday, but before that Tuesday even gets here there are field trips, celebrations, and end of year events stacking up on the schedule.

And an 18 month old who has zero idea what any of this means but absolutely wants to be included in everything her big sibling is doing.

This is the overlap nobody talks about, the weeks before summer where you are somehow already in summer mode while still finishing out the school year. It’s a lot. And if you don’t get ahead of it, it gets ahead of you.

Why I Don’t Let Summer Kill Our Rhythm

Here’s the thing about structure, it doesn’t have to be rigid to be effective. It just has to exist.

In our house, the rhythm we built during the school year doesn’t take a summer vacation. It just gets a little more fun.

Every Sunday I’m still pulling out clothes for the week for both kids. It sounds small but that one habit alone saves me from the 7am scramble that would otherwise derail my entire morning before I even log into work.

Monday is grocery day. Once the fridge is stocked I can align our meals for the rest of the week, no daily “what are we eating” decisions draining my mental energy. Decision fatigue is real and moms carry the most of it.

This summer my mom is stepping in to help with the kids while I work, which means the days are getting intentionally filled. Planned field trips, outdoor activities, new experiences. My 4 year old is at the age where everything is an adventure and my 18 month old just wants to keep up with her big sibling. Our daily morning and evening routines stay consistent for both of them because consistency is what makes the fun days actually work.

Structure isn’t the opposite of summer fun. It’s what makes the fun possible.

The Part Most Moms Skip: Scheduling Yourself Into Summer Too

Can we talk about the part nobody puts on the summer planning checklist?

You.

This summer I made a decision, I am filling my cup too. And I didn’t just say it, I put it on the calendar. A concert. Two trips; one with my family and one just me and my husband. Two girls nights. It’s on the schedule the same way the kids activities are on the schedule.

Because here’s what I know to be true: a healthy balance for mama means a healthy balance for the kids too.

I’m not letting mom guilt hold me hostage from what I know is best for my mental health. My babies will be fine. That’s why God called me to be their mother. He will never give us more than we can bear, and that includes a girls night and a concert.

The Restoration Pillar isn’t just bubble baths and face masks. Sometimes it’s a night out with your friends. Sometimes it’s a trip with your husband where you remember who you are outside of being somebody’s mom. That restoration pours directly back into your children whether you can see it in the moment or not.

Schedule yourself in mama. You deserve a summer too.

My Summer Prep Checklist (Before the Chaos Hits)

Save this. Screenshot it. Come back to it every May.

• Map out your childcare coverage before school ends Know exactly who has the kids on which days before summer officially starts. Don’t figure this out on the fly, that’s where the stress lives. For us, Grandma is the MVP this summer and that peace of mind is everything. → Check your local summer camp listings early, the good ones fill up fast.

• Pull clothes out on Sundays — yes, even in summer I know it sounds extra but this habit alone saves my entire Monday morning. Five minutes Sunday night means zero scrambling before work. → A set of Days of week dividers keeps the kids’ clothes organized so Sunday prep takes half the time.

• Grocery shop Monday, align meals for the week Decision fatigue is real and moms carry the most of it. One grocery run sets the tone for the whole week. I’m not reinventing the wheel every night, the plan is already made. → Glass meal prep containers make it easy to prep snacks and meals in advance so the fridge is always ready, under $25 and worth every penny. 

• Build a summer activity bank for the kids I spent one afternoon writing out a list of activities, field trips, and free things to do in our area so we’re never stuck scrambling for something to keep the minis busy. → Keep a sensory activity bin stocked for the days you need them entertained at home, a water sensory table is a summer staple that works for both toddler ages. 

• Schedule something for YOU every single month Not optional. Not a reward. A requirement. Put it on the calendar the same way you put the kids activities on the calendar. A concert, a dinner, a girls night — whatever fills your cup. It goes on the calendar first. → A family wall calendar with columns makes it easy to see everyone’s schedule at a glance, including yours. 

You Deserve a Summer Too

Summer is coming whether you’re ready or not.

But here’s what I want you to walk away knowing; you don’t have to just push through it. You don’t have to choose between being a present mom and being a whole person. You can plan the field trips AND the girls night. You can keep the routine AND leave room for the spontaneous moments that make the memories.

You only get about 18 summers with your kids at this age. That number doesn’t have to scare you, it should motivate you to be fully present for every single one. And you can’t pour from an empty cup.

So build the rhythm before the chaos finds you. Schedule yourself in. Let the structure hold the family so you have the freedom to actually enjoy the season.

You’ve got this mama. Now go plan your summer. 🤎

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Posted By: The Mommy Blend Team · In: Rhythm & Home